Keep your options open. However, "medical families" can work. After dating a doctor for 5 years and finally realizing that what I'm dealing with is an excessive need for being put on a pedestal and adulation by mainly female colleagues of lower professional rank nurses I decided to move on. That's all we're really saying. That's probably true, and that would be a great thing for her, but they wouldn't see it that way. I love talking religion with him and I have never pressured him to change his habits or anything else about him. I find there are less disappointments when I know I am completely on my own. Also, I'm having a really hard time understanding from these responses how anyone in the medical field ever dates or gets married. Good advice for "newbie" docs and spouses.
If your heart longs for children, a family and love- why should you stop yourself holding out for some mystical Mormon man to swoop you off your feet. There are other ways. LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next. It is hard for the others to understand my situation, people must just think that you don't need to worry about anything, but this is not the case. You are a good person and she can see that. Again, reiterating it, don't expect a decade's worth of time with her, but enjoy her good while you two are together. He also travels an inordinate amount. And depending on his views of the Sabbath, you will probably get the tug of war on Sundays.
Many times, that is exactly what it really does feel like Yes I'am all to aware about those silly answers regarding pay and "don't worry be happy" boloney. Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. With moonlighting included, my boyfriend sometimes works up to hours per week. There is no way she will may you without you going to the temple. We have almost daily prayers, scripture reading, and lengthy discussions about our beliefs. He did call frequently, so I don't think its a good sign that your doctor guy isn't calling. They have heavy-handed laws, free handouts, unfair advantages for getting jobsвa loud feminist illusion spoon fed to them. Don't fall in love with a doctor. If he's in year 1 of the residency, he's got probably years left finishing residency then fellowship. So good to find this I am married to a Dr with 2 young kids.
Will he be happy knowing that you are giving up something of incredible importance to you. Cookies make wikiHow better. What can you expect. Your attempts at being funny or lightening the mood may backfire, and your date may be put off. I also know that my husband's job as a Surgeon is before us my kids and I. I don't know if I want to be a single mother of four kids.