Here's my advice though: It doesn't sound like you want that though, so you're going to have to talk to him. It is the greatest sadness of her life. Here is a list of reasons I feel apply to my situation в some of them in retrospect:. I have been dating a great guy for about a year now, and we started dating shortly after my parents died of cancer. That's cool and everything until you realize that they're an archeologist or a missionary pilot and are in uncivilized areas with no modern methods of communication.
I am not sorry I married outside the LDS faith. Someone already said it, but unless you are planning on converting, this is a dead end relationship. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. And as many posters stated, it is something that needs to be seriously discussed with your potential partner. Yes, do sever the relationship. I knew that I couldn't possibly be alone.
She has to decide for herself what she believes, but you can definitely help expose her to new ideas. If your spouse thinks 8 is too young to get baptized, are you all right with waiting until they are older. I simply do NOT believe he and I will not be together after we die. When you mix cultural groups you increase the difficulty. There are billions of other girls out there who I wouldn't have issues like this with. Honestly I'd let things keep going. In the end, God is a just God. Usually, when Mormon girls marry non-Mormon men, these women forsake their religion and revert to ordinary American woman. I also definitely don't want her raising my future children, though, and I'll be very clear about that.
You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. As a fellow man married to a female Dr. It won't be easy with the lower salary but it will be better than the alternative. We have been married a mere 3. Ending sooner rather than later is much easier and less painful for everybody. Do you want a home that is focused on the church with all of the blessings there of or a home that is devoid of the blessings of the priesthood, Sundays without your husband at your side at church with your children celebrating in the gospel. Thanks for pointing this stuff out. I really don't know how will I cope up with every matter without him by my side in this new road ahead of me. I married outside the church and have no regrets.